Ep 12: How to care about everyone and not care what they think

Care about people … and let them think whatever they want.

Summary:
Most of us were trained to watch ourselves from the outside. Be liked, be approved of, fit in, adjust, don’t be too much, but also don’t disappear.

So we end up caring … and also constantly tracking what everyone might be thinking about us.

Takeaways:
• You were you before anyone had an opinion about you
• Your feelings tell you everything … if you actually listen
• That split-second pause before you respond is power
• What they think is theirs … it was never yours to manage
• Letting people be exactly who they are is respect, even when you don’t like it

What you’ll walk away with:
Being in your own lane for real … where you can care about people fully and still stay rooted in yourself